The lovely Jooj has the talent of making me pause, suddenly thoughtful. Her post of gratitude from yesterday inspires mine.
I’ve been in DC about two and a half years now, and spent a good portion of my life in this part of the country. I imagine that my wandering predilection will return again soon, and I’ll want to move on somewhere else. I always know this is happening, because I start sleeping away from my house, finding excuses to stay with a friend for a night, never really unpacking my little weekend bag. I can’t leave globes or Google maps alone. I usually take a trip abroad. I find myself totally surprised when I say something like, “I hear Boston/Portland/Berlin is a really cool town – what was your favorite thing about living there?” and when scanning my friends’ Facebook pages, I always check their networks, in case they live someplace interesting I can grill them about.
But all this is a post for another day. I am, at the moment anyway, quite happy to be living right where I am, a few houses down from Jooj, in a multi-colored DC suburb, watching the leaves float to the ground in a final odyssey.
Things I am grateful for this morning:
- The art of others: sharing the the quotidien across 3,191 miles; light-suffused polaroids; dreamy colors; detail; translating waste and loss into excess, making oneself into a portrait.
- Hot cocoa after a chilly walk
- The generosity of a family willing to have 50 perfect strangers in their house to screen a new (and wonderful) documentary about the story of black Mormons.
- The beauty of belief in the midst of adversity, and what it gives one the liberty to say.
- Arvo Part, slowly teaching me that a break from personal music traditions can be revelatory.
- Butternut squash risotto, which I made successfully yesterday. Also maple-hazelnut pie.
- Friends willing to share their own loves.
- A job which stretches me, even on the days when I feel most unqualified.
- Silly things: Gossip Girl, cardigans, Agnes comics, mascara.
- Latent potential, and whatever lovely place hides it from my view.
- Slow mornings.
- Ties That Bind.
- My clumsy, stubborn, well-intentioned family.
- Sleeping in a ray of sunshine, like a cat.
- Seeing this play downtown a few weeks ago.
- Massive Scharffenberger baking bars.
- Poems, in whatsoever form they choose; the line of a roof, an online chat, a dusty tome, spray paint.
What’s your list?

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October 21, 2008 at 1:00 am
jooj
oh huzzah! isn’t it so wondrous to sit and pause and look around and think “oh my goodness my life is so full!” thanks for sharing, xarissa. and i must agree with your maple hazelnut pie. mmm……….
October 22, 2008 at 10:44 am
JB3K
Well, if you’re really looking for something new, take a look at this.
http://www.newsweek.com/id/165028/page/1
Since they’re not the alpha male/female of the pack, let’s all hope they’re not allowed to breed.